Stage 1: The Meeting.
It's the very first time for the two strangers meet. Mostly, love at first sight. Even though you refuse that it's not, well, you've been nailed on it. It's pathetic how guys do anything for the right girl. Getting her number is definitely the first mission. And if that happens, everything felt like its been paid off.
Stage 2: The Chase.
And now, stage two. Some says it's the best part. For the guy, all you wanted was to know more about the right girl. Surely, you will add her face book account, check on her photos, call/text her. All you wanted to do was hang out with her. And the only person you want to talk to was her. She's the number one priority for you. And every time you sees her, of course, butterflies. She's everything that you thought could be perfect in a girl. And soon as it felt right.."Would you be my girlfriend?"..With this simple words, both begun a relationship.
Stage 3: Honeymoon.
Taking them to stage three. It's the time were both can express fully affection to each other, and do all the things they wanted to do as a couple. It was a dream come true. The person you wanted so badly, was finally yours. Go on dates, spend time together like there's no tomorrow. It's the stage were both will knew every detail in their lives. Just like any normal healthy couple.
Stage 4: Comfortable.
Now being comfortable is unnecessary bad, it's when both can truly be their selves. But it depends on what would they do in that comfort. Some use it positively, continuing to work on their relationship and grow it together, but others allow it to grow in distance. Some would thought that they're taking each other for granted. They're starting to slowly fall out. Getting sick on what they've used to do before. Not or late answering/replying each other's call/text messages. Bottom line is, someone stops trying. the feelings aren't strong like before. This could happen over a few months, or a few years.
Stage 5: Tolerance.
The stage were full disappointment is found. The person you were so crazy about, turned out not to be not so special anymore. It happens so gradually, you wouldn't even see it coming. But there they are, just tolerating each other. Arguing is one thing but feeling dissatisfied and unhappy with the relationship is another. They become those relationships that wasn't bad, but wasn't good too. That's never a good way to describe a relationship.
Stage 6: Downhill.
There's no much time left once you hear that. The effort to try make things work, just isn't worthy anymore. Promises to continue, arguments that didn't solve..it all drops down. Everything is falling apart. You're nearing the end of the stage. This happens at everyone, at some point.
Stage 7: Breaking up.
The end of the line. The worst stage ever. You don't know when it all happen or how. They would say, it's for the best. This is when both start a new path. One that leads back to were they've started...Strangers. The change will be so blunt, that you probably want to get back together just to restore whats normal. But this doesn't always happen, and the distance will grow. By the time both moved on, things weren't always the same. Their lives will continue on different direction. Becoming strangers again. And everything they've shared will become just a fragment memories. And all that's left was the memory of a stranger who was so important in their life.
Before stage 4, there will be two questions, either breaking up, or getting married.
4/23/11
Stages Of Relationships. (Strangers, again)
It's been so so so long.
Haha. I feel like, it's been years since I haven't updated my blog. hello spider webs.
By the way, meet my sweetie. :">
10/19/10
9/9/10
Self-written.(BEFORE)
나좀 꺼내줄래요♫..
내 머리속에 너무 많은 생각들이 뒤엉켜 있어서 난 아무 것도 할 수가 없어요.♫..
차라리 바보로 만들어줄래요..눈물위 뜻이 뭔지, 거 짓의 뜻이 뭔지 아무 것도 모로 만들어줄래요♫..
결코 행복하지도 않은 나한테 이런 끔찍한 머리와 심장을 준건 볼공평해요♫...
난 쉴 틀 없이 생각만해야 돼요♫..
9/3/10
Composed song.
(I'd compose it and tuned it with the guitar.)
UNPREDICTED WORDS
You were some kind of angel sent above.
Who was always there when I give up.
I knew then you were always there for me.
Even when I'm not there for you.
Can you hear me?.
I don't wanna cry anymore.
My heart hurts so much more than before.
Please tell me oh.
I miss you everyday.
Every time your away.
I never felt this strangeness of mine.
Until you said that you'll hold me tight.
I believed that you will never let me go.
But the day comes,
I have to let go.
I'm still with you, My love..
8/27/10
Back.
오케이,보르드 랑 아고. 와라 랑 아공 마가와.
액투아리. 게랑안 고 나린 막아랄 가시 미드 테르므 나 나민.
니고,키야 얀~!!..
파센샤 나 궁 디 모 마민틴디한.
와하하하하하하~~..ㅋㅋㅋㅋ~..
소 아윤 랑 나만.
사랑해,나 그대 영원토록 사랑해~..
왕자 ♥ 공주
7/2/10
FUCKYEA!.
haha.FUCK!.
This is the "ULZZANG" that caught me off my feet.
SHE is so HANDSOME.
Alright,
haha!.
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